Perfect? You are NOT the perfect parent.

Perfect parent

That’s right. You are not a perfect parent. It really shouldn’t be news to you that you’re not perfect. Not perfect in general, not even a perfect parent. If it is, you may be somewhat delusional. Guess what? Those other parents. They’re not perfect either. Not even the ones who lead you to believe they … Read more

Living with Fibro (Fibromyalgia)

living with fibromyalgia

I’m often asked to describe some aspect of fibro (fibromyalgia), my chronic pain, chronic illness, etc. It’s not easy. There are so many pieces that all interconnect. As soon as I mention one thing, something else comes up… because one always affects the other, and another and another… I recently went through my worst flareup. … Read more

Time passes…

No matter how much time passes, it doesn’t get any easier. The time between hurting gets bigger, but the hurt is still there, waiting to bubble to the surface. …not always for warned of the triggers, getting through most anniversaries without too much life interruption. But this particular time of year is just hard. As … Read more