Perfect? You are NOT the perfect parent.

Perfect parent

That’s right. You are not a perfect parent. It really shouldn’t be news to you that you’re not perfect. Not perfect in general, not even a perfect parent. If it is, you may be somewhat delusional. Guess what? Those other parents. They’re not perfect either. Not even the ones who lead you to believe they … Read more

Nothing to do?!

Things to do in West Nova

Nothing irks me more than hearing the phrase “there’s nothing to do!” It especially drives me nuts when accompanied by a whining voice. Kids are notorious for claiming “boredom” and expecting their parent(s) to find them entertainment. Lately I’ve been noticing that it’s a much bigger annoyance when spoken by adults who are perfectly capable … Read more

Alone versus lonely

Sun and ocean

Do you feel alone or lonely? Adults’ lives are filled with dichotomies. The more wrenches that get thrown into life, the more contrasting views that seem to apply to the same situation(s). I am faced with one of the most common single parenting dichotomies. I do not get enough time to myself. Period. My life … Read more

Fear not

Action

What is it they say? “The only thing to fear is fear itself”… Ironically, fear is one of the biggest causes of failure. Failing to live life to its fullest, failing to try new things, failing to pursue dreams, or to love, even failing at the simple concept of being content/happy… We sometimes allow fear … Read more